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The Quiet Storm: Living With Dementia


It often begins so subtly that it’s brushed aside. A misplaced set of keys, a forgotten appointment, the name of a neighbour lingering just out of reach. To the casual observer, these are the small forgettings we all experience from time to time. But for someone living with dementia, and their loved ones, these moments are the quiet footsteps of an approaching storm.


Dementia is not a single disease, but rather a complex umbrella term that describes a range of conditions affecting the brain. At its heart, it is about the gradual loss of cognitive function — memory, reasoning, language, and beyond. Alzheimer's disease, the most common form, accounts for around 60 to 70 per cent of cases worldwide. Yet, beyond the clinical definitions, dementia is deeply human. It shapes the narratives of millions of families, rewriting futures in ways that are both unpredictable and profoundly emotional.


In the UK alone, over 900,000 people are living with dementia, a number set to rise as our population ages. Despite its prevalence, dementia still carries a stigma, often cloaked in misunderstanding and fear. Conversations about the condition are too often hushed, as if speaking of it will hasten its arrival. But silence only deepens isolation, for both those diagnosed and the people who care for them.


For carers, the journey can be as demanding as it is heartbreaking. Watching a loved one’s memories fade is an experience marked by grief for what is lost, even as the person still stands before you. Yet, amidst the challenges, there can be moments of surprising clarity and connection. A familiar song might spark a smile, or a shared story may flicker back to life, if only for a fleeting moment. These instances, however small, become precious lifelines.


Advancements in research are offering glimmers of hope. Scientists are working tirelessly to unravel the complex biology of dementia, with promising developments in early diagnosis and treatments that aim to slow progression. Equally, there is a growing recognition of the importance of compassionate, person-centred care. Initiatives across the UK, from dementia-friendly cafés to memory walks and support groups, are helping to build communities where those affected feel seen and supported.


Living with dementia calls for profound patience and empathy. It teaches us to value the present moment, to find beauty in simplicity, and to embrace each day as it comes. While a cure may still be on the horizon, understanding and kindness are tools we already hold in our hands.


As a society, our challenge lies not only in the search for medical solutions, but in creating a culture where dementia is met not with fear or pity, but with dignity and respect. Every story matters. Every voice deserves to be heard, even when words falter.


The storm may be quiet, but it is one we cannot ignore. With greater awareness, support, and compassion, we can ensure that those living with dementia — and those who love them — never have to face it alone.

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  • Writer: Paul Andrews - CEO Family Business United
    Paul Andrews - CEO Family Business United
  • Apr 21
  • 2 min read

It often begins so subtly that it’s brushed aside. A misplaced set of keys, a forgotten appointment, the name of a neighbour lingering just out of reach. To the casual observer, these are the small forgettings we all experience from time to time. But for someone living with dementia, and their loved ones, these moments are the quiet footsteps of an approaching storm.


Dementia is not a single disease, but rather a complex umbrella term that describes a range of conditions affecting the brain. At its heart, it is about the gradual loss of cognitive function — memory, reasoning, language, and beyond. Alzheimer's disease, the most common form, accounts for around 60 to 70 per cent of cases worldwide. Yet, beyond the clinical definitions, dementia is deeply human. It shapes the narratives of millions of families, rewriting futures in ways that are both unpredictable and profoundly emotional.


In the UK alone, over 900,000 people are living with dementia, a number set to rise as our population ages. Despite its prevalence, dementia still carries a stigma, often cloaked in misunderstanding and fear. Conversations about the condition are too often hushed, as if speaking of it will hasten its arrival. But silence only deepens isolation, for both those diagnosed and the people who care for them.


For carers, the journey can be as demanding as it is heartbreaking. Watching a loved one’s memories fade is an experience marked by grief for what is lost, even as the person still stands before you. Yet, amidst the challenges, there can be moments of surprising clarity and connection. A familiar song might spark a smile, or a shared story may flicker back to life, if only for a fleeting moment. These instances, however small, become precious lifelines.


Advancements in research are offering glimmers of hope. Scientists are working tirelessly to unravel the complex biology of dementia, with promising developments in early diagnosis and treatments that aim to slow progression. Equally, there is a growing recognition of the importance of compassionate, person-centred care. Initiatives across the UK, from dementia-friendly cafés to memory walks and support groups, are helping to build communities where those affected feel seen and supported.


Living with dementia calls for profound patience and empathy. It teaches us to value the present moment, to find beauty in simplicity, and to embrace each day as it comes. While a cure may still be on the horizon, understanding and kindness are tools we already hold in our hands.


As a society, our challenge lies not only in the search for medical solutions, but in creating a culture where dementia is met not with fear or pity, but with dignity and respect. Every story matters. Every voice deserves to be heard, even when words falter.


The storm may be quiet, but it is one we cannot ignore. With greater awareness, support, and compassion, we can ensure that those living with dementia — and those who love them — never have to face it alone.

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